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News from St. Mark's Episcopal Church June  2009
John de BeerLetter from John de Beer
 
Dear Friends,
 
Gordon Cosby was the founding pastor of the Church of Our Savior in Washington, D.C. For many years I have been inspired by his vision of church where each member is called to a life of discipleship, in a mutual relationship of prayer and support with other members of the congregation. Gordon's thoughts are most easily accessible through the writings of Elizabeth O'Conner. I have slightly edited this passage from Journey Inward, Journey Outward:
 
Find out what you really want to be doing and do it, which is quite different from doing your duty or what is expected of you.  Have faith that God calls you into being to play a part in His cosmic drama. Your deepest longings and desires provide hints which help you identify this part. What you deeply want to do is often what God wants you to do.  What you think you ought to do and feel compelled to do may not be God's intention at all.

This thought guides my ministry among you, both for myself and in how I seek to serve you.
 
Twelve members of St. Mark's have been reflecting and praying about their part in "God's cosmic drama." Nine were members of the Covenant! course that met for eight weeks and three participated in the Between Jobs course, along with twelve people from the community. I hope that they will share with you some of the insights that they gained and ask you to support them as they respond to God's call at St. Mark's and beyond.
In This Issue
Letter from John de Beer
From the Senior Warden
From the Associate
Youth Group Field Trip
Property Notes
Outreach Notes
Women's Group Meeting
Help needed
St. Mark's and B-SAFE
Project Bread's FoodSource Hotline
Choir Notes
Notes from EDS
Usher Schedule
Regular Schedule
Quick Links
If you would like some summer reading for yourself around this topic, any of Elizabeth O'Conner's books are fun to read: Our Many Selves, Eighth Day of Creation: Gifts and Creativity, The New Community, Letters to Scattered Pilgrims, Cry Pain, Cry Hope: Thresholds to Purpose.

If you can't find any of her books, Parker Palmer's Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2000, is definitely in print.
 
For myself, I continue to feel blessed to be your Rector. At the end of August Tricia and I are moving into the Rectory at 14 St. Mark's Road. I look forward to continuing to support you to discover and to act on what you most deeply want.
 
Blessings,
 
John
 
The Rev. John de Beer
Shirley EstrellaFrom the Senior Warden
 
Recently I was asked what is it that I like about being Sr. Warden. I thought for a minute and could only reply, "all of it";  the challenges, the problem solving, the interaction with parishioners of all different personalities, the business aspect, and above all seeing how the holy spirit moves within this congregation. As some of you know, this is my third time being a Sr. Warden. The first time was when the Rev. Bill Seaward was rector of St. Mark's which was many years ago. There is no comparison today with then. The church has had so many changes both at the diocesan level and at the parish level. We have fewer parishioners but the power of the spirit is still very strong here. We had a successful Tea Party which raised over $500 for the pantry.  The youth walked and raised over $1500 for Project Bread.  We are making a difference in the world and in the town of Burlington. Between Jobs brought in people from other towns who commented that the program is very thought provoking. The Covenant! class proved to be very enlightening for me and answered some questions which have been on my mind for a long time.  This was also a way of getting to know some people at a deeper level.  I would encourage all of you to really think hard about attending this group when offered again. It is about life itself, your life. For me it was a way of seeing a clearer direction for my life and I will be happy to share my experiences with you in more detail. Now as I write this, it is still May, but the temperature before noon is 81 and the forecast is 90 plus so summer is almost here. This is the last issue of the ROAR until the fall. As many of you go traveling on vacation, I ask you not to forget that God is with you. Please take the time to pray during the summer months, to give thanks for your abundant life and I will pray that you all return in the fall after having a safe and happy summer.

Peace and love to all,

Shirley Estrella
manlyFrom the Associate for Multigenerational Ministries
 
Dear Friends,
 
Thank you for all your prayers for healing after my surgery.  The doctors all told me be about the healing powers of ice cream after a tonsillectomy but I know it was your prayers and positive thoughts that helped the most.  I found that too much ice cream is never a good thing in the long run.  Fortunately I'm on my way to a full recovery and a more normal diet.
 
In the few weeks before my surgery I spent many moments in prayer wondering where God was leading me.  Should I stay on at St. Mark's for another year?  Should I look for another job?  Can I continue to work multiple jobs and retain my sanity?  They were tough questions to ask.  In many ways I thrive on change.  The constant change is one of the things I loved most about being in school.  Classes only last fifteen weeks and then you can study something entirely different.  Each year I got to move to a new room with new people.  And just when you think you can't take it any more June rolls around and you have vacation!  In school nothing every stays the same.
 
As a person who lives according to the adage, "variety is the spice of life," it was a little frightening to imagine myself working at St. Mark's for a third year in a row.  But then I realized that things are changing and I enjoy being part of the change.  Working with you all I've seen how in just two years St. Mark's can become a new church.  So after talking with John and the Vestry I've decided to stay on for another year.  My ministry will be in the same areas with increased energy on the Story Sunday services.  I'm excited about the possibilities and can't wait to see what happens!   
 
Sarah
Youth Group Field Trip
 
We are excited to announce our third annual Youth Group Canobie Lake trip.  We will meet briefly in the choir room following the service on Sunday, June 7th, have a snack and then head to the park.  Everyone is encouraged to bring a bagged lunch.  We will return to St. Mark's at 7:30pm and youth group members can be picked up at the church.  The trip is open to active members of the current youth group.  Admission to the park will be $12.00, with the balance being covered by the Youth Group budget.  We are not allowed to bring food or drinks into the park, so members are advised to bring some pocket money if they would like to purchase anything once inside.  We are looking forward to a great day of fun!
 
Also, our final Youth Group Meeting for 2008-2009 will take place on Sunday, June 14th.  We are planning to have a cookout at our house following the service.  We will provide transportation to our house, and ask that the Youth Group members be picked up at 3:00pm from:
 
27 Pequot St.
North Billerica, MA 01862 
 
DRIVING DIRECTIONS
 
From: 10 Saint Marks Rd, Burlington, MA 01803-3622 US
To: 27 Pequot St, North Billerica, MA 01862-2923 US
 
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A) 10 Saint Marks Rd, Burlington, MA 01803-3622 US
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    1. Start out going NORTHWEST on ST MARKS RD toward TERRACE HALL AVE.  (0.1 miles)
    2. Turn RIGHT onto TERRACE HALL AVE.  (go 0.0 miles)
    3. Turn LEFT onto BEDFORD ST.  (go 1.5 miles)
    4. BEDFORD ST becomes BURLINGTON RD/MA-62.  (go 0.3 miles)
    5. Merge onto US-3 N toward BILLERICA/LOWELL.  (go 5.1 miles)
    6. Take the TREBLE COVE RD exit, EXIT 28, toward BILLERICA/CARLISLE.  (go 0.2 miles)
    7. Turn SLIGHT RIGHT onto TREBLE COVE RD.  (go 0.9 miles)
    8. Turn LEFT onto PEQUOT ST.  (go 0.2 miles)
    9. End at 27 Pequot St North Billerica, MA 01862-2923
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B) 27 Pequot St, North Billerica, MA 01862-2923 US
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>> TOTAL ESTIMATED TIME: 15 minutes | DISTANCE: 8.31 miles
 
Youth Group Schedule for the remainder of the fall 2008 - spring 2009 year:
 
- Sunday May 3rd: No traditional meeting.  Youth group will participate in the Walk for Hunger / Common Cathedral lunch.  Please see Sarah Manly for more details.

- Sunday May 17th: Youth Group will meet as usual in the choir room from 11:00am - 1:00pm.  Field Trip permission slips are due today.  If you do not have a permission slip, you can download it here: http://www.saintmarksburlington.org/youthgroup/files/ygtrips2009.pdf

- Sunday June 7th: Canobie Lake

- Sunday June 14th: Final meeting / cookout
 
Sincerely,
 
Justin & Juliette Turner
 
Email: justin@say-anything.com
Home: 978-362-1566
Mobile (Justin): 781-771-6629
Mobile (Juliette): 978-987-7571
Property Notes

Property Improvements Continue
Thanks to your efforts and input, Property Improvements are being made each week.
--------The gardens are looking great.
--------The lawn is beautiful.
--------The building is being improved.
 
What is next?
ALL PARISHIONERS........
We want your opinion on two questions: Look for opinion boxes that will be located in the narthex and near the bathrooms.
--------Should we convert one bathroom to a handicap room for both men and women?
--------Should we remove some large bushes so we can better see the beautiful flower garden that is emerging near the entrance.
 
 
PROPERTY TEAM WORKERS........
We have a new Job #1  
We ask for your help at your convenience to 
--------Rake the leaves and grass and other "bad things" from the "gardens."
--------Let's get it down to bare DIRT. so that Mulch can be added. 
--------Find leaf bags in the shed.
--------Use the ten bags of mulch on the steps of the church--front side door

Outreach Notes
 
Please remember our Food Drive - The first Sunday of each month  -  JUNE 7TH
 
The list of food that St. Mark's can help benefit the Food Pantry is as follows:
 
   Hamburger Helper - any kind of noodle dishes that tuna, chicken beef or pork can be added
   Spaghetti Sauce - Dry Pasta
   Tuna Fish
   Mayonnaise
   Catsup
   Pancake Mix & Syrup
   Baked Beans
   Powdered Milk
   Bottled juice
   Soup
   Canned vegetables
 
Anyone wishing to make a donation of money would also be helpful.  Please make check out to St. Mark's Church with Food Pantry written on the memo line of the check.  If giving cash please also specify for the Pantry.  Thank you.
 
WEDNESDAY FELLOWSHIP LUNCHES
 
As summer is approaching and people get busier than usual, the Outreach Team thought it would be best if we gave up our luncheons during the months of June, July and August.  Have a wonderfull summer.  See you in Church and in September for lunch.

Marge Douglass
Women's Group Meeting
 
Our final meeting before the summer will be on Tuesday, June 16, 2009. As in years past, we will be going out to dinner. This year we have decided to revisit The Emerald Rose on Route 3A in Billerica.
 
There will be a sign up sheet in the Narthex. Please sign up by Sunday, June 14, 2009. The cost of the dinner is being confirmed.  
 
We will be meeting in the church parking lot at 6:30 PM and driving over together. Reservations are for 7:00 PM. All women of the church are welcome to join us.
 
If anyone needs a ride, please contact us and we will make arrangements for you. We all have a wonderful time and want you to join in the fellowship of St Mark's women. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact:
 
Linda Kelley at 781-883-8972 or email at ljkelley@rcn.com
Rosemarie Tieri at 781-272-1558 or email at rozeetea@yahoo.com
Judy Gustafson at 781-229-2688 or email at judester52@comcast.net
Yard work help needed for the Knowltons
 
Jim and Jeanne Knowlton of 31 Carey Avenue would like to hire someone to cut their lawn this summer. This could be a good part-time job for someone between jobs or for a student during the summer months.
St. Mark's to Participate in B-Safe
 
For the first time this year St. Mark's, coordinated by Marge Douglass and Catherine Owens, will be a partner church in the B-Safe program - an urban ministry designed to keep young children safe and off the streets, reducing their exposure to gangs, drugs, and risk of injury or death as innocent bystanders to street violence. While most partner churches take a full week we are dipping a toe in the water and only taking two days, Monday July 27th and Tuesday July 28th. We will be providing lunch and a snack for 60 kids at St. Mark's, Columbia Road, Dorchester, and bringing volunteers to help serve, read to the kids, and otherwise participate for the day. Everyone we have talked to has said it is one of the most rewarding ministries they've participated in.

We will be looking for help planning and making lunch and snacks, and volunteers to come into Boston with us. We'll send out details in early July. In the meantime, if you think you might be interested in helping, please talk to Marge or Catherine.

To learn more about the program as it was in 2007 (it's added two more locations since then), check out the YouTube video here.
Project Bread's FoodSource Hotline
 
With the high cost of living in the Commonwealth and more than 522,000 people across the state struggling to put food on the table, chances are that a friend or neighbor of yours is having difficulty making ends meet this winter. Project Bread's FoodSource Hotline can help. The FoodSource Hotline is the only comprehensive information and referral service for the hungry in Massachusetts. Counselors can provide information and screen callers for food stamp eligibility, connect them to school meal programs, and direct them to emergency food resources right in their neighborhood. Counselors can assist callers in 160 languages and the calls are both personalized and confidential.  Extend your goodwill and reach out to those in need. A call to Project Bread's FoodSource Hotline may be all it takes to provide comfort to someone who is struggling.
 
In response to the increased demand for help, Project Bread's Food Source Hotline has extended its hours to:
Monday - Friday: 8:00 A.M. - 7:00 P.M. Saturday: 10:00 A.M. -  2:00P.M. 1-800-645-8333  TTY: 1-800-377-1292.
Choir Notes
 
TEA FOR MORE THAN TWO!!
 
The St. Mark's Adult Choir enjoyed being part of the very successful American Girl Tea Party.  We had a chance to sing some songs we don't normally get to perform, and we were thrilled to see such a great turnout for the event.  The Parish Hall looked just beautiful, and our own Betsy Figenbaum was on the committee and helped make the day a big success.  She also remembered to bring an umbrella for our rendition of "Singin' in the Rain"! Bruce Burrell did a terrific job accompanying us on clarinet and acting as emcee. We thank Shirley Estrella for inviting us to be part of the Tea Party, and I thank the choir members for making this extra effort.
 
YOUTH CHOIR SETS A RECORD
 
Since the Adult Choir expended so much effort in preparing for the Tea Party, we took the day off on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 10th. For the first time ever in St. Mark's history, the Youth Choir sang not one but two anthems during the service.  The song we taught to the congregation, "Your Words", was new to our repertoire, so that took several weeks of work to prepare.  I am grateful to the Youth Choir members who have dedicated their time for rehearsals after church and to participate in our worship as fully as they do.
 
SUMMER CHOIR
 
As in past years, the Youth Choir will take the summer off until the week after Labor Day when school resumes.  The Adult Choir will continue to grace us with their music during our summer worship services. We will end our Thursday night rehearsals in June, and then start again the Thursday after Labor Day.  Later in the summer we will have a session to read through some new anthems that we will consider for the next church year. Our anthems during the summer will be familiar favorites, so we invite anyone who would like to try us out to come on Sunday morning at 8:30am for a quick run-through before the service.
EDSNotes from EDS
 
As you know, I am working as a consultant for the Winchester Unitarian Society, helping them develop their welcoming and new member incorporation processes. The ministers (a couple with the first names of John and Sarah, believe it or not) lent me a book about Unitarian Universalism. In one of the essays in that book, the author quoted an old Jewish story, that goes something like this:

Once upon a time in Krakow, a rabbi dreamt three times than an angel told him to go to Livovna, and that in front of the palace there, near a bridge, he would find a treasure. When the rabbi arrived in Livovna, he told his story to a palace guard who told him that he, too, had had a dream in which he was told to go to a rabbi's house in Krakow, where a treasure was buried in front of the fireplace. So the rabbi went home and dug at his own hearthstone and found a treasure.

The author used this story to illustrate the value of going somewhere else, to a teacher from another tradition, to an understanding of another faith or practice, to better know yourself. This has certainly been true for me. I deeply appreciate their commitment to service, to social justice, to making this world a better place. I honor their openness to and respect for all religions and spiritual practices. Both of these are also aspects of my own life based on my understanding of what Jesus intended all of us to do.

And I also know, fully and completely, that Christianity as it is expressed in the liberal Episcopal church is where I am supposed to be. I miss reflecting on those hard lessons in the Gospel in the company of others doing the same thing. I miss the Eucharist. I miss opening myself to the mystery of faith in a Trinity I can barely comprehend. I miss the discipline of letting go of rationality and feeling God in and around me. (I know that doesn't sound like a discipline but for as committed a rationalist as I am, letting it go takes some work!).

This job is a great joy and I am probably learning as much as I'm giving. I'm building a relationship with the other John and Sarah that I believe will be a lasting one. And the greatest gift has turned out to be that opportunity to step outside my own religion, and through that to fully understand what a treasure I have at my own hearth.

It's also a great opportunity to pick up on ideas to bring back to St. Mark's. One of these is the idea of ethical eating. The approach they are working on is based on the idea that by making one or two simple changes in the way we buy our food and the kinds of foods we eat, we can have a positive impact in the world. They have just started an ethical eating group that is exploring all kinds of things, from getting educated about humane and fair trade labeling, to exchanging recipes and doing cooking demonstrations, to clubbing together for community agriculture shares, to showing films and reading books together, to supporting community food service causes that ensure everyone is well fed. No one tries to do everything - and everyone does something. It seems like a fun and easy way to make a positive change for ourselves and the world. If anyone would be interested in forming an ethical eating group at St. Mark's please let me know by emailing me here or catching me the next time you see me in church! We could have a great time!!

Love and good food for all!

Catherine Owens
Usher Schedule
 
May 31                    MARK LAMOURINE         
                               NELSON HOLT                   

June 7                     GREG DOOLEY                  
                               BOB JANKOWSKI              
           
June 14                   CAROL HODGKINS
                               DENNIS HODGKINS         
 
June 21                    DON HOWSER                    
                               BOB PATTISON                  
 
Jun 28                      BRIAN CULLINAN            
                               RICK BLANEY                   
 
July 5                        DENNIS HODGKINS         
 
July 12                      MARK LAMOURINE         
           
July 19                      NELSON HOLT                   
 
July 26                      GREG DOOLEY                  
 
August 2                   BOB JANKOWSKI              
 
August 9                   DON HOWSER                    
 
August 16                 BOB PATTISON                  
 
August 23                 RICK BLANEY                   
 
August 30                 BRIAN CULLINAN            
 
Sept  6                     CAROL HODGKINS
                               DENNIS HODGKINS                              
Summer Schedule
 
Holy Eucharist and Church School begin at 9:00 am on Sunday. After service we have a simplified coffee hour in the parish hall.
 
.On the first Sunday of the month we have our monthly food drive to support People Helping People. 
 
The ROAR does not publish over the summer. Our next issue will be before Welcoming Sunday in September. If you have news or a request to send to the ROAR mailing list, please email Catherine Owens.